Monday, October 5, 2009

She's A Fighter, She's So Much With an Attitude, She's My Daughter.

I have so many things to update on Sarah. She is 1.5 years old and we actually missed her actual appointment date for her last jab. Just realize it last thursday and so glad that Mr. husband willingly to drive her alone there. Well, usually if it is for check up only he will go by himself but for a jab, I need to be there to hold Sarah since she's freaked out. Very rare to see husbands go for their child appointment by themselves kan? Proud of him.



Sarah has been very easy to handle though at times we are still have to face with her attitude. At nights, she will fall asleep at around 9-ish and we both are very glad for having our time for leisure. Speaking of this, at first I thought that she is naturally a fast asleep child but after keep rewinding and remembering past times, it is actually us who teach her to sleep early. When she was around 4 ~ 6 months, she was put in bed at around 8-ish although she was still awake. The lights are off and we even lay down beside her to put her in mood. ( and that was where i missed Buletin Utama and even Oprah!). It has become her routine now and she is quite easy to put into bed and hardly wakes up at night. Parenting tip for today: If we want our child to do something, we too must do the same thing. Macam kes ini, kerana kami mahu Sarah tidur awal, kami pun (pura-pura) tidur awal.


Sarah can be as sweet as lollipop or as cute as bunny but she can change her attitude just in a minute. She is quite garang and I really like the fact that she is a fighter and doesn't like people around to bully her. We went for an open house last sunday and there were bunch of toddlers are playing together and Sarah joined them. Suddenly a 2 year boy went to Sarah and smacked her head by using a toy car. I was surprised and wanted to grab her fast but before I could do that, she smacked the boy with a toy lorry. Even bigger and more painful. Serves him right and I am very proud of her. Even his father said the same thing because the boy is so stubborn.





Now she is as cute as bunny.




Next she may be your worst nightmare. Hahaha


My father said that her attitude is exactly like mine when I was small. No surprise there, it's in the blood. I hope she will have both of our attitude (very determine like me and friendly like mr husband). Seriously, she is so friendly. She waves her hands to everyone i.e other kids, even to an ice cream man and to a totally strangers.


She can be independent sometimes. Setakat nak suruh put her used clothes in the laundry basket, or throw her diapers to the dustbin, buka pakai kasut sendiri, tolong main-main air while I wash the plates and kemas-kemas rak pinggan takde hal. (The latter tu, sarcasm ok)



Boleh diharap dah!


Tapi, paling dia suka honking everyone. She knows the location of the horn in my car or her father's. Selamba je honk bising-bising. Anak dara saya lasak orangnya.





Nevertheless, dia tetap has a girly feelings, suka tengok cermin. Maybe she thinks she's cute and whe she saw her reflextion, her reaction was "Eeeeeeeeeeiiiiiiii"





She is still a picky eater when she is with me, and most of the times she wants to feed by herself. Kalau tak dapat menangis macam kena cubit.



But end up, it was not what her wants. Cuma nak play with food.





Inilah dia, buah hati, pengarang jantung kami suami isteri. Penat macam mana pun rasa relief bila tengok wajah dan keletah dia.

Seronok kan ada junior sendiri?

4 comments:

shiela said...

wah..cmtu rupenye anak ko...hehe..garang tu mmg genetik la ;p

Unknown said...

betul, masa tidur anak2 perlu kita set dari awal. perlu diajar dan itu bukan bakat semulajadi seorang budak kecik. mula2 nak ajar tu memang payah kan? aku pun masih teringat how hard aku try utk ajar balqis sleep at nine. Alhamdulillah, kol 9 je dah gosok2 mata. even kalau aku bawa keluar g jalan pun, at 9 dah tidur. erm, balqis seingat aku jarang tertidur sendiri depan tv mcm ko cakap psl sarah aritu tp kol 9, aku akan hangkut dia letak lam bilik. kol 9 is time aku tukar baju dia, tukar pampers.. lap badan, bagi susu dan dia pun tidur. tapi bila weekend, aku reward dia dengan tidur kol 10 mcm tu. saja bagi bersosial ngn family lebih sikit.

tapi, still aku rasa bila diorg dah besar kan akan ada keinginan sendiri utk tidur lewat kan? itula cabaran2 nye.

but yes! definitely yes kalau masa balqis asyik nak main n susah nak tidur, aku akan buat2 lelap. nanti automatic dia akan pergi baring sebelah aku n tidur sendiri... hahaha. lucu kan kids?

oh ya, kalau pasal daus bawa dia keluar tanpa aku kan, dia akan jd seorang budak yg tak banyak hal tau. tp it will be different kalau aku ada.. mcm2. haha. anak memang begitu kan? cute.

ash... balqis pun very picky eater.. aku macam nak nangissss T_T dan one thing aku sgt setuju is, macam mana lah masalah yg kita hadapi dlm hidup.. wajah anaklah yang buat hilang semua tu. senyum dia.. kiss dia..... cair hati kita. lega kan... Alhamdulillah..

saisyahk said...

to shiela: sikit sebanyak tu memang anak borek mak rintik lah.

to leen: that's why. aku igt tido awal tu bakat semulajadi.. tapi tak ah.. kalo tak di train jangan harap dia nak tidur awal.

sarah pulak, kalo dengan awang lagi banyak ragam dia. maybe dia manja lebih. dengan aku behave sikit tapi bab makan, dua-dua orang pun tak jalan. even pengasuh dia bekalkan masakan dia utk sarah, sampai rumah pun tak nak makan.

The Moon Hapiz said...

waaa.. byk belajo nie.. i`m 23 kot.. :)